Perhaps you should think a bit longer/deeper if-
- the deepest desires of your heart are material, e.g. money, things, stuff.
- the deepest desires of your heart do not include meaningful relationships with other people.
- the deepest desires of your heart are changing from day-to-day, or even year-to-year.
- you are not willing to make long-term commitments that require sacrifice, which you are determined to keep despite trials and challenges.
- you've achieved the deepest desires of your heart, and are still not happy.